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EMPATHY AND
ENERGY
Psychointegration
Session
21/AUG/2007
By
Jorge Raul Olguin.
In one
of the many meetings where one is seeking to find out the meaning of life
itself, the topic related to empathy was approached and obviously it's nice to
have empathy for the person who one is providing service to, but it’s not
essential. Having or not empathy does not exclude the function of being useful
to a particular person. Debating about the topic we reached the conclusion that
one cannot feel empathy for a person who does not like us and the other person
is not compelled to have empathy for us.
Whenever you
go to a certain place where there is an ‘X’ number of
people perhaps you will have more or less charisma, according to the charisma
that the other person has, one will have more or less success with regard to the
people involved.
However,
it’s obvious that you are not to like everyone. There can be a different
spiritual vibration, or a difference of auric vibration, this has been proven
because there are people who are going to like you and other people will dislike
you too. Then you can go to a place where there are 10 people and perhaps 3 of
them will like you, 4 of them will remain indifferent to you, 2 of them are
going to ignore you in a 100 % and one person is going to dislike you
completely.
You can
force a cordial situation, showing your empathy, being kind, acting politely,
but you have no way to force a situation where the empathic wave plays against
you, then you cannot empathize with someone who does not like you at all, it’s
impossible. And as we say when we want to convey an important message and nobody
listens to you, when you transmit that word: "Do not throw pearls before swine,
because instead of showing them off they are going to eat them up", "Do not
waste your wisdom with a fool, because his/her time has not yet come." Bridging
the gap, with an empathic relationship happens exactly
the same thing. You can have a huge empathy, but you won’t be able to feel
harmony with a person who ignores you, who does not pay attention to you. There
are some people who have a very important auric capacity and some who do not
have it, they have little auric energy and there are other people who lack of it
completely.
The other
night I was watching the video adapted from the book: "The Celestine Prophecy."
where it talks about the different ways to absorb energy from the other person
by playing the roles of ego, the role of victim, the role of inquisitor, etc. And there are
many people who will absorb your energy while being with
you.
The ideal
thing is to replenish the energy from the Absolute, channeling the bluish white
ray from the Absolute and replenishing that energy, but due to lack the of
concentration, or practice, or trust in communicating with the Father, most
people do not know how to do it, then, they have energy deficit . Excluding the
female gender which is often absorbed in the auric energy through a sexual
relation, which is incompatible at a vibrational
level.
Now let's
delve on that topic. Let's talk about cases like mine where many people might
want to absorb my energy through roles of inquisitor, through roles of victim, it’s very common for that to happen because people
usually play a protagonist role. My defense is obviously trying to be fully
alert and not falling into that trick, not falling into that trap, and not
allowing that those people with roles of victim generate guilt on me, not
accepting that those people with roles of inquisitor generate fear on me. In
that case I have to have a huge layer of self-esteem and belief that I am doing
the right thing in order to avoid that they absorb me. However, even so if they
absorb me I can replenish my energy field charging me through the energy of the
Absolute. But what happens when they suck such amount of energy that they empty
you? It creates short circuit energy. What is that?
Perhaps you
have seen an electric meter when you switch on a computer and the needle rotates
very slightly. The same applies to a radio, maybe you turn on a radio and it
rotates a little faster with a big TV, even if they are digital now and they do
not spend much energy. When you turn on an iron or a small stove you will see
that the electric meter rotates significantly faster, and if the resistance is
higher, with a large electric stove, you will see that the wheel of the electric
meter spins like crazy. But what would happen if both wires were in touch
without any resistance? It would rotate so fast, and there would be a huge
potential difference, which automatically would cause that the fuse blows up,
because there would be a short circuit. If there were no fuse, surely the
electrical device or the same electrical facility would collapse. With the aura
it may happen something similar. If there is a great auric absorption, which
provokes a large deficit of energy in a very short time, it becomes an auric
short circuit and even if one is the most protected person, one is going to
suffer some real physical symptoms that can be dizziness, vertigo, stomach
pains, headaches, symptoms you would imagine like heart problems, hypertension,
hypotension, fainting... So much that can affect the energy potential when it
drops fast. And that happens when there are extreme cases of violence from the
other person, an extreme role of victim, a role of inquisitor, a manipulation
from which you cannot escape... And obviously that in all those cases it affects
the psychophysical apparatus obviously it does, and if one does not keep up the
energy replenishment, even being the most expert ‘absorber’... let’s call that
to the one who absorbs energy from the Creator.
A well-given
hug, empathetic, can potentially transmit energy to the other person. Obviously
it will not be the same as an intimate or an erotic foreplay where one transmits
that energy of love, but a good hug transmits energy too. With one difference,
that a hug can be practiced by everybody, while an intimate relationship is
limited to an emotion or a feeling. The embrace of love depends only on
impersonal Love, and impersonal Love has nothing to do with emotion, it’s an
impersonal feeling, which is important that anyone who walks the face of the
Earth feels it.
It’s true
what I said at the beginning: it's hard to have empathy for those who do not
take us into account, but you cannot force that, because since the Absolute
respects your free will, you must respect the free will of others as well, and
he/she has the right to not having you in mind, as well as you have the right to
make your life on your own. The important thing is to understand that we all are
valuable; each one of us is unique! You are unique! if
you can hear me know that you're unique. You just have to digest it, and
understand that it is so.
And on the
physical plane you'll always find people who are seeking to absorb your energy.
The thing is that you must assume that the great energy channel is God and that
little by little, understanding what God is, you can absorb from Him and no one
will take your energy away.
Thank you.
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